Are you and your partner:
- Does it seem like that two of you just can’t communicate anymore?
- Do you and your significant other keep having the same arguments?
- Are you finding it difficult to trust or has your trust been broken?
- Missing the passion in your relationship?
- Do you feel more like roommates than a couple?
- Wondering whether the two of you are going to last?
I work with couples in re-establishing the connection that brought them together; strengthen their emotional bond; increasing trust, acceptance and understanding: and creating lasting strategies to love their life together.
When we fall in love everything seems right in the world and like it always will be. But sometimes life gets in the way and things change. After a while you realize that you and your partner are not communicating so well. It may seem like you are arguing all the time or when you want to talk your partner shuts down, or vice versa. It may seem like your partner really knows how to push your buttons, which leaves you wondering, “Why does he/she do that?” Perhaps your trust has been broken and you are wondering if you can ever get it back. Or maybe, you feel disconnected and more like roommates than lovers.
I see these scenarios all the time in working with couples, so you are not alone. They develop from the two of you wanting to get your needs met, but not having a clear understanding how to meet each other’s needs or a constructive way to communicate your needs. And when we feel like we are not getting the love we want we tend to emotional, which leads us to either “fight” for our needs or “flight” by shutting down and not trying, thinking, “What’s the use?” Either way it becomes a vicious cycle.
I have helped numerous of couples find their way out of these negative cycles, rebuild trust and have a happier, more fulfilling connection with one another. I do so by utilizing a type of couples therapy that is scientifically proven to work. And guys, just in case you are wondering, men responding very positively to it, so yes, it will work for you too! Contact me today.